Rough Plaster paint effect walls and products to achieve the look

We’ve been doing a lot of thinking and talking here at Barlow Towers, about redecorating our bedroom, for what feels like almost a year.

The fitted cupboards that Mr B made, using reclaimed french doors, from The Vintage Rooms Matlock, have been finished for months but we’ve not been able to pin the rest of the design of the room down, mainly because of the lack of head space, due to family ill health and other commitments.

This thinking time, has been valuable in many ways though, as it has given me the certainty to know that I definitely want to achieve a rough luxe look, using some lime paint. The constant images of distressed and time worn style, plastered walls that keep popping up on my instagram and Pinterest feeds, has confirmed that the calming, almost monastic quality of this look is just what I crave in my bedroom, my sanctuary, the only room, it seems I can get any peace and tranquility at the moment.

I first considered this look after using some Bauwerk paint on a set, last year. Bauwerk were the only brand that I knew who made this type of paint at the time and although I bought their recommended wide bristled brush to apply the paint with, the set builder struggled to achieve the exact look I wanted. I now realise from watching tutorials on instagram, which weren’t available then, that the only way to achieve the time worn textured look, is to apply multiple coats of paint, at least 5 and I don’t think we went quite far enough.

This is the set that I used the paint on which looks more mottled than distressed but we were pleased with it in the end?

The influencer Kyla Magrath has used Bauwerk, much more successfully in her lounge and has a fantastic tutorial which she has saved as a highlight on her Instagram profile, which is well worth a watch if you are thinking of using it? This paint is expensive so you don’t want to make any mistakes and Kyla’s tutorial gives a very detailed explanation of just how to achieve the look she has.

The lovely textural wall created by Kyla in her home using Bauwerk paint.

Other brands have now emerged which give varying degrees of the look from the very subtle by Kalklitir seen here in the beautiful home of photographer Karine Kong, Casa Pyla. Karine tells me that the paint is available on Amazon and is incredibly easy to use. I’m actually quite drawn to this more subtle look and I think I’d be less likely to tire of it than a more dramatic distressed look, but that’s only because I’m quite lazy when it comes to redecorating our own house and therefore, I need things to stand the test time.

The Kitchen at casa Pyla home of the photographer Karine Kong.

If The more antique distressed Venetian Palazzo is more your style, then you will love the effect created by Interior Designer, Dee Campling, in her home, using Autentico paint. Again Dee has uploaded a very helpful, informative tutorial on her instagram profile page as a Highlight.

The lovely finish achieved in Dee’s home using Autentico

Another brand of lime paint that I really love for the simplicity of its application alone, is Pure & Original. There are no fancy techniques employed with the application of this paint, just a coat of their primer onto the wall first and then once that has dried, you simply apply the lime paint and wait for it to do it’s magic. The uneven texture and light and shade created, is completely natural to the way this paint dries.

I first saw it in the Airbnb created by the beautiful lifestyle store Igigi and they are in fact one of this countries limited suppliers.

I would recommend that you buy a colour card before using any of these paints to achieve the exact colour you desire. Most of them come at a cost as they are hand painted cards, but due to the high cost of this paint, it’s money well spent to my mind.

Back to Beige – The New Neutral


After over a decade of grey dominating our homes and interiors as the neutral of choice, it’s so refreshing to see a move away from these cooler tones and a return to warmer neutrals. With an ever increasing interest in sustainable and ethical design and materials, it’s no surprise as these shades of stone, clay and bisque work as a perfect backdrop for natural materials.

It all started when Dulux announced their colour of 2019 “Spiced Honey” a warm caramel tone, to somewhat mixed reactions. I know when I did a poll, on my instagram stories, asking what my followers thought of the colour, the immediate response was a thumbs down. But after Joa Studholme, colour consultant for Farrow and Ball, revealed the nine new shades from the paint company back in September 2018, with not a grey in sight and predicted we would “be moving away from grey” it appears that we have been convinced? Beige, it appears is anything but boring.

In fact what at first to be a rather bland choice, looks fresh and contemporary when mixed with crisp whites and darker accents of black and navy to anchor it and by adding layers of texture such as rattan, cork and wood the whole scheme suddenly looks very appealing. These shades are versatile and work equally well with a traditional or contemporary interior.

Image from The Poster Club

Image @linneasalmen

Image @ingredientsldn

Michelle Ogundehin, former Editor in Chief of Elle Decoration, has renamed the introduction of these softer colours, used together with natural textures, as “soft Scandi” and it is certainly a warmer, more homely and perhaps more versatile take on the stark white and monochrome palettes we’ve become familiar with as the Scandi look.

Image @casapyla

I’ve definitely been won over by the warmer tones and am thinking of using this palette in our bedroom, with added texture to the walls perhaps in the form of cladding or a textured chalk or lime paint finish and have been busily pinning and saving shots from Instagram for inspiration.

Image @interiorglobe

Image @bauwerkcolour

I’ve put together a mood board of some of the High Street buys and lovely hand made products from smaller independents that would pull this look together.

  1. Throw – HK Living
  2.  Noah Cushion – Ren London 
  3. Table Lamp – Nove Lighting
  4. Washed Linen bedding – H&M
  5. Palm leaf Wall Hanging – Rose & Grey
  6. Wall Art – The Poster Club
  7. Woven Chair – Also Home
  8. Brown Star Tiles – Porcelain Super Store
  9. Rug – Zara Home
  10. Pottery – Hannah Bould

What are your thoughts on the new neutrals? Do you agree with Michelle that the Soft Scandi look is perhaps more suited to our climate here in the UK or are you yet to be convinced to move away from the grey palette?

Why I Decided To Start A Side Hustle Business

Some of you that follow me on Instagram might have noticed that about 8 months ago I started a new online business, selling rustic salvaged and reclaimed homewares and props for photography.

I’ve had lots of questions from followers and friends and family asking if this is now my new career, was I giving up my styling work, was my new business @Theoldpotatostore going to be a bricks and mortar shop and open to the public and why the name, The Old Potato Store?

So as I’ve not written a blog post for 6 months, shame on me I know, and it is something I feel strongly that I want to continue with, after listening to my friend @susanearlem speak about the future of blogging at Altrincham Word Fest, I thought writing about the journey of @Theoldpotatostore would be an interesting blog post to kick start me and answer some of those questions?

So it all started around 6 years ago when my friend Jenny, an upholsterer was looking for premises to move her business to. Somewhere she could work from, uninterrupted away from her home life, and provide a showroom for her clients to meet her, look at her work and discuss their projects.

Jen had an allotment and through talking to the treasurer of The Allotment society, she discovered that they were selling one of their premises which they had owned since the turn of the last Century. Jen came to see me and asked if I was interested in buying it with her, which of course I wasn’t, but to humour her and not drown her spirits, I went to view it and was immediately smitten by it’s charm. The single storey brick building, with original flagstone floor and two separate entrance doors, was perfect for carving up into two separate buildings, and was also a steal and almost too good not to buy. Jen had also been told we could have first dibs on it and it would be ours if we offered the asking price, which of course we did the very next day.

As a busy working stylist, I had no immediate use for my half of the building so for the last 5 years I’ve rented it out, but in October last year my tenant gave me notice and I took the keys back. Now I could have easily got a new tenant, the building is in the heart of a thriving town, down a quiet street and is as I’ve already mentioned, full of character, but over the years I’d often thought about using it for something of my own.

I knew working in the creative industries, as a freelance stylist is often feast or famine. Many job offers come in together and you can of course only accept one and then there might not be anything else for 2 weeks, a bit like waiting for a bus, all or nothing. After reading Emma Gannons book, “The Multi Hyphen Method” Emma confirms that through the internet and our phones we are now able to work from anywhere, any time and because of this it allows us to have multiple streams of income. I realised after reading Emmas book, that I could start a side hustle business very easily, with very little overheads, as I owned the building and I could work on my own terms, as and when I wasn’t working on photo shoots or TV commercials. Starting a new business, no longer needed to be an all in situation!

The name of the business came quite quickly. The allotment society had used the building to store seeds and bulbs and once a week opened it for purchases such as potato plants. The Old Potato Store, was a nostalgic reminder of the previous life of this little old building.

The nature of the business, selling rustic decorative home wares was also an easy decision. Since getting married almost 30 years ago, myself and Mr B have been buying antiques and attending antique markets all over the country and Europe and our home is full of unique and individual items. As a stylist a large part of my work is taken up with shopping and often for interesting and unusual items for shoots. I didn’t want to set up a props hire business as I know this is demanding and requires a lot of admin, something I was glad to leave behind from my previous job as an underwriter. I’d had a small vintage shop years ago, which I wrote about here and used to sell vintage clothes and textiles when my children were little, so I knew a lot of dealers and also knew I had a good eye for a decorative item. I could style a shot and take a decent enough photograph, who can’t these days to be honest, so the idea for a virtual pop up store was born.

It’s been perfect timing in many ways. Since November my elderly mum has become ill and needs more of my time and care and it’s allowed me to step back a little from long hours working all over the country on shoots and taken the pressure off a little, whilst still allowing me to earn money for the family pot. Going to my little building, listening to a podcast with a coffee and styling and photographing my found treasures has been so satisfying and almost like therapy. The calmness of the building with it’s thick brick walls and gentle light has been described by a friend as almost church like and no matter whats going on in my life, it all seems to melt away for an hour or two when i’m in there.

The thrill of seeing everything being snapped up and going to a new home and then seeing the customers posting their purchases on their instagram accounts, styled up by them, always brings a smile to my face.

I’m hoping eventually, as the business grows, to build a website so that I can shopify my posts and hope to one day open The Old Potato Store as a physical shop with enough charm and style to be able to offer it for hire as a workshop space for other creatives. It’s a big dream, but I believe in dreaming big.

If there’s anything similarly rustic that you’d like me to try and source for you, please send me a message and follow my page for constantly changing stock. Thanks for getting on board and supporting me so far x





Dressing your Christmas Table in the Dark Blooms Trend

The trend for dark blooms in sumptuous colours of plum, grey and black is a beautiful romantic look that we have all fallen in love with and it lends itself beautifully to this time of year, when the nights are drawing in and those deep berry colours are just perfect for Christmas decor ideas.

I was asked recently to run a “Styling your Christmas table” workshop at an event organised by @thewomensinstatute, run by my very good friend @relovedmcr and @wendyhouse123 & @fikaandmooch.

As soon as I was asked to design a table scape my thoughts returned to the photography I’d styled for my shoot with Rachael @objectstyle a lovely independent shop in Chorlton Manchester. Working along side Rachael and photographer Lucy Sugden Smith, we created four key looks for a table ware hire service that Rachael and her husband Alex offer as an extension of their business.

Out of the four looks created, the one we called dark blooms, lent itself perfectly to Christmas, with just some added seasonal decorations and I thought this was the perfect look to create and demonstrate to the guests of @thewomensinstatute on the day.

The first rule (although I hate rules in general) when dressing a table is to not just think about the flat surface of the table. Consider above and around the table and create layers and different heights and play with scale. Also think about sparking all of the senses. As well as the sight of the table, incorporate smell, using candles and fresh flowers and foliage, scented by plants such as eucalyptus, rosemary and fresh berries. Touch is also important and can be added by using different textures and materials, such as linen, velvet, fur, marble & glass. Your table is not just a place for people to gather for a meal, it’s a way of showcasing your creativity.

Start the layering by covering the table surface with a table cloth.  Use whatever you want here to create some added texture. In the past I have used an old tartan blanket and some rough hessian sacking cloth but as long as it sits with your chosen theme, go for it! You can even have a piece of fabric cut to size that you can hem around if you can’t find the perfect colour or size. The only thing I would be wary of is using patterned fabric as it might be difficult to make everything cohesive once you start layering?

Next add another layer with a runner in a different texture, so if you’ve used a linen table cloth, add a velvet runner to contrast with the textures. Then add coasters and table mats using metallic, marble, slate, beaded mats, anything you want. I have some old Brooklyn tin tiles at home, which I’ve used which add a lovely patina. A further layer is introduced with plates and bowls and then a selection of glasses in different heights, including, wine, champagne and water.

Next add the cutlery which comes in so many finishes from silver, to brass, black and copper. I’ve used brass cutlery to bring a feeling of glamour to the table. Christmas is the one time of year where more is more? There are so many ways to display cutlery on a table. You can simply tie it together with twine or ribbon or place it in a jug or vintage jam jar for a more rustic theme or you can create a pocket from the table napkin for the cutlery to sit in as I’ve done here. It creates a more formal look and you can then add a decorative finish to the napkin by using contrasting ribbon and a single bloom or piece of foliage or a feather as I have here. To add a further bit of glitz for Christmas, I simply sprayed the tip of the feather with hairspray and quickly sprinkled with fine glitter before the hairspray set.

Think about creating height on the table and playing with scale. Candles are a perfect way to do this by using different types of candle holders, from candelabra using tall taper candles and pillar candles in lanterns and then lower level tea lights and votives. If you have time to make your own candles you can use vintage tin chocolate moulds or vintage glasses to add an industrial recycled look to the theme to stop it becoming too formal. Taper candles and votives are also a perfect way to add co-ordinating colour to your table. In the finished table scape below, I used burgundy,black & grey taper candles to bring the whole colour scheme together.

Another way of creating layers is with flowers and foliage. Add a low level strand of ivy or a garland of foliage along the length of the table with various heights of seasonal flower arrangements in the centre of the table. To create even more Christmas atmosphere, you can never have too many string lights. Add them into bell jars, lanterns and twist them around the evergreen garland on your table. Pay attention to the surrounding room and create further drama by adding something over the top of the table such as a foliage wreath or winter branch which you can wrap lights around or add further colour by adding different layers of paper pomme pommes or paper stars.

If you want your table to be more formal, add names cards. A cheap and visually stunning way to do this is to spray pears or figs, matt black or gold or copper or sprinkle them with glitter, by using the simple hairspray method again!. Then tie a luggage tag with each person’s name around the stem. These beautiful calligraphy tags were created by the very talented Fiona who is available for commissions for your special events.

Finally, it’s not Christmas without a party cracker to pull. You can make your own to co-ordinate with your table theme simply and easily, using wallpaper or gift wrap. Here I used some wallpaper by Woodchip&Magnolia and tied a contrast plum colour ribbon around the ends to pick up on the plum of the table napkins and flowers. This is a great and simple Christmas craft project to make with children. Click on the Youtube link below to see how to.





10 Things You Should Do on a First Visit to New York

Recently I wrote about our first family trip to New York and where we stayed, which you can read here.

This next post is about some of the things that we did during our 5 night stay in the big apple. Some of them are obvious tourist destinations but some of them are just things that were recommended to us by friends who had visited before or that we had read about when researching exactly what this city has on offer. This is in no way an exhaustive list, it’s merely touching the tip of whats on offer but I thought some of you planning a visit to New york, might find it helpful? I know I read loads of blogs before our visit and they were very insightful.

  1. Shop – There are just so many opportunities to shop in new York that it would be foolish of me to list the many many shops we went in, some incredible, hello ABC Carpet & Home and some no better than what we have on offer in the UK, which was a surprise in itself? But by far my favourite was Fishs Eddy. This store started 25 years ago and sells homewares. It specialises in dishes and table ware, inspired by old hotels and roadside cafes. It is pure retro Americana and the mix of original authentic vintage and really good repro is amazing. I loved the amateur oil painting portraits they specialise in and would have brought some back in my suitcase if I had not discovered Fishs Eddy on our last morning when we had almost run out of dollars. What I did buy and bring back though were my beloved vintage metal numbers which I have hanging in my kitchen that remind me of our trip every time I look at them.

I also really enjoyed walking around China Town which was so vibrant and full of amazing Chinese supermarkets, tea shops and restaurants as well as interiors and clothes shops selling a selection of tourist tat and some really beautiful items. I could also tell you a story about our son, being led down a side street by a vendor with a suitcase of merchandise for sale and watches up to his armpits, but I won’t go into detail for obvious reasons! Safe to say you can buy all sorts of very unkosher items in China town!

2. Walk – Take a walking tour of one of the village areas, such as Lower East Side, Greenwich or Harlem. You will be taken around the area by a local guide who knows the district inside and out and it’s such a fascinating way to spend a couple of hours getting to know one of the lesser know areas of New York where the locals live. We chose to walk around Greenwhich with our guide who was so knowledgable and we got to see and find out more about the legendary Jazz club Cafe Society where Billie Holiday first sang “Strange Fruit” a very political song of it’s time and Cafe Wha where the some of the American greats such as Lenny Bruce, Joan Rivers, Bob Dylan, Jimi Hendrix and Bruce Springsteen to name a few, have performed and been discovered. She also took us to The Stonewall bar where the Stonewall riots culminated into what became the gay liberation movement and eventually Gay pride festival to commemorate the event and the people lost to the cause. And of course, it goes without saying we visited the famous corner side apartment where our friends Rachel, Ross & Phoebe & Co lived in the early 1990’s. We booked our walking tour through New York City Pass, which have a range of many, but there are other companies that run these events.


3. See – The Manhattan skyline lit up at night from the best view in New York, The Top of The Rock. Everybody tells you you must go up to the top of The Empire State Building but guess what you can’t see from there? The Empire State building! By far the best view of the skyline and the iconic Art Deco Empire State is from The Top of The Rockerfeller Centre and you can then go down into the bar and watch the ice skaters outside. Yes people were still ice skating in April!

4. Ride – The subway and a yellow taxi. New York is very walkable but sometimes you’ve just got to tick some boxes when you go to a city. One of them for us was hailing a yellow cab and guess what they are very cheap and plentiful. About $11 for a ride across Manhattan. When you want to go further afield, such as Brooklyn or Coney Island, the subway is quick, cheap, clean and safe. Don’t believe what you’ve heard, it was unsafe back in the day before Mayor Giuliani cleaned up the city but now it’s just the same as any other under ground system around the world, no problem at all.

5. Eat – Try everything that conjures up new York! A burger, a New York Cheesecake and if you’re a fan of The Sopranos A cannoli with an Americano. Obviously being coeliac, I couldn’t try the cannoli, but my son George who is a huge Soprona’s fan, tried one in Little Italy and said they were better than he ever thought! Go to Katz Deli in Lower East side, the location of the most famous scene in When Harry Met Sally. The Pastrami on Rye with pickled Gherkins is to die for and the place is so authentic, it’s almost unchanged since the first Jewish immigrants settled there and Katz opens it’s doors in 1888. Be prepared to queue though. We were lucky and walked straight in but apparently that is very lucky? Worth the wait though for sure!

6. Cycle – You wouldn’t think a city like New York to be particularly safe for cycling, but I would definitely recommend hiring a bike to get around Central Park, one of the largest inner city green spaces in the world. It has one continuous circular path around the park, with designated cycling, jogging and walking lanes, making it all very organised and safe, as long as you stick to the right lane. Be prepared to be sworn and hollered at if you don’t! This didn’t happen to us fortunately but I heard some pretty rich language being expressed a few times at people who broke the rules! Bikes can be hired through Bike Rental Central Park or through your New York City pass, which we did. The more attractions you pay for on your pass the cheaper they become and if you buy the flexi pass, you can decide which attraction you want to do on any day of your visit.

7.Hear – There are many music venues all over New York but as a life long fan of Woody Allen ( I know that’s not very PC to say anymore, but I was brought up on his films as a child & I think he’s a genius of his craft,) going to a Jazz club in new York was a long held dream of mine. We chose Birdland in Hells Kitchen just off Times Square. It’s one of New Yorks best known Jazz Clubs, has no age restriction which was great as Amber was only 16 and they have a choice of 3 shows a night. It was magical and everything I hoped it would be. Entry was about $30 but you get your first drink of choice at the bar with this. It’s dark and moody and intimate and the resident band who we saw perform where tight and professional and played a wide range of genres of Jazz. The calendar of events and acts can be viewed here and tickets can be booked online in advance to avoid disappointment.

8.Cross the river – Walk over The Brooklyn Bridge or ride the Subway to Brooklyn. We disembarked at Brooklyn Heights to look in awe at the multi million dollar brown stone buildings, then walked along the side of The Hudson river to The Brooklyn Flea market at Dumbo. It was good but very expensive compared to UK antique and vintage prices. George our son got a haircut in a Brooklyn barbers, something he had wanted to do and then we got a taxi to Williamsburg which is a fantastic, very trendy area which has been gentrified in recent years and is now home to High Street stores such as Apple and Urban Outfitters as well as many small independent stores and lots of very cool vintage shops. Amber our daughter, bought her end of school, prom dress, from a Korean fashion designer who had a lovely shop in an old sugar factory, complete with Brooklyn tin tiles on the ceiling. Some restaurants and bars I can recommend are Juliette and The Rabbit hole, both very bohemian and atmospheric. We loved Brooklyn and Williamsburg especially and would perhaps consider basing ourselves there next time and exploring that area more?

9. Visit – A museum. The best Manhattan museums are in Uptown next to central Park. I’m ashamed to say that although going to MOMA was definitely on our list, the amazing warm sunny April weather seduced us and we ending up just walking around admiring all the sights and the architecture and just listening to people talking in that fabulous New York accent. But as you would expect in any large city, the museums are unrivalled and of course MOMA is home to all the great contemporary modern American artists such as Jackson Pollock, Edward Hopper, Mark Rothko, Jasper Johns, Roy Lichtenstein. In fact as I’m typing this I can’t believe we didn’t go? I suppose that’s the reason I need to go back? Also the amazing Frank Lloyd Wright designed Guggenheim museum is in this vicinity. I did catch a glimpse of it’s curved white walls through the trees of Central Park as I whizzed past on my bike, but again I’m quite embarrassed to say I didn’t venture any further than that. I think this goes to show just how much New York has to offer. Museums and galleries are almost always my first port of call when visiting a city and to say I didn’t go to one in New York speaks volumes about what is on offer in the city. Just for anybody reading this who is intending on visiting Moms, entry is free every Friday evening from 4.00pm – 8.00pm or if you have the New York City pass, this is one of the free attractions you can use your pass for?

10. Drink – A Manhattan. You’ve got to surely?